This is how we do it: ‘She reminds me that sex is fun – not a test I’m going to fail’

She was only the second person he’d had sex with – after his ex-wife of 25 years. Now only anxieties about confidence and their age gap hold them back
How do you do it? Share the story of your sex life, anonymously
Sex used to feel like an obligation, now it feels like a team activity in pursuit of pleasure
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