This is how we do it: ‘I’d distract myself to avoid climaxing – until the time I said out loud, “I need to take the bins out”’

Ana Sofía was coming out of a sexless relationship; Alfredo had never had a girlfriend. That made things ‘extremely exciting’ at first, but now they’re happy to slow it down
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I knew I would have some kind of baggage around sex due to my previous relationship, but I didn’t quite know how it would manifest
Now that I have sex consistently, it’s like it’s fallen down on my priority list, because in theory we can have sex whenever we want
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