I am insanely jealous of my husband’s ex-colleague. How can I move on? | Ask Annalisa Barbieri

You may have to sift through some uncomfortable feelings that you’ve buried – this may help defuse the ‘hate bomb’
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I’m a woman of 50, married for 30 years to the best husband.

He is a very kind person, whom I love dearly. We have a very comfortable and balanced relationship where we have our hobbies, but also shared interests. We parent the children (almost grownups) as a well-functioning team. All in all, life with him is perfect.

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