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On the downside, all my personal data is being harvested by faceless corporations. On the up, I’ve got a little parent in my pocket, anticipating my every need. I awoke recently to one of those ...The Guardian - 6d -
Ian McKellen encourages fellow actors to come out: 'Being in the closet is silly'
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American influencer apologizes for snatching Australian baby wombat following outrage
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How an Iowa woman became a key witness in her own murder
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Dylan Mulvaney's tell-all book and Netflix thriller Adolescence: What's coming out this week?
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Massive Kingdom Come 2 Patch Out Now With 1,000+ Fixes And Improvements
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My adult daughter wants to turn herself back into a teenager
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Mother of two sons shot in Duterte’s ‘war on drugs’ dares hope for justice
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